how often do we do things and only think about the people on the receiving end ? how often do we actually do things without having the intention of being reciprocated ? frankly, on my side , seldom - very.
a pretty simple example wld go like that:
I am of a character & person who loves to make plans and org events for people. be it birthdays , meetups , dinners , lunches. you name it , i love it. so much so that sometimes i do more than what is expected or required of a friend. i say i dont need the reciprocation , but do i really mean it ? how many of us can put in a 101% into something just for ONE friend and not expect to be reciprocated ? so many times , i get tired and fustrated when i put in so much effort in planning for an event and people dont bother to atleast put in the interest. - that hurts , terribly.
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but today , i've learnt that it doesnt matter and i shldnt look/let affect me at the portion of ppl who do not appreciate what i've put in. instead , i shld just continue putting 101% into whatever im doing and let those that appreciate enjoy. because , when we forget about ourselves , we do things others will remember.
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